If you want to feel loved and respected, give up control.
如果你想要被爱和被尊重，放弃控制吧！


For in the love configuration, losing gives a gift that always returns.
在爱的天地里，「输」就是给了对方一份礼物，你必得着回报。


If you want to win arguments at home, learn to lose them.
你想在家里赢得辩论，学习「输」吧。

When you win a battle and your spouse submits, you have , paradoxically, lost.
当你赢得一场争执，你的配偶屈服了，

事实上，相反地，你是大输特输。





【心得感想】


退一步海阔天空，真是受用无穷！却偏偏又很难实行！